Dating

What It Felt Like to Have Sex for the First Time Post-Divorce

10 frequently asked questions from Big Salad readers, including the big one...

Jul 27 •

9 Texts I Sent to My Friends While on Dates

The group text needs live recaps.

Jun 21 •

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Four Ways I’ve Learned to Deepen Friendships

Although the last one might be a little controversial!

May 31 •

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My #1 Rule for Dating

I'm also really thirsty, apparently, lol.

Apr 27 •

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My First Date After Divorce

“I blacked out and resuscitated myself a dozen times on the cab ride to dinner.”

Mar 29 •

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My Two First-Date Outfits (Thoughts?)

Plus, six funny things I've seen on Hinge, and a motto that reframes dating into something calm and beautiful.

Mar 1 •

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15 Genius Dating Tips, and Did Keanu Reeves Just Ask Me Out?

Listen now | Plus, a six-minute podcast on googling crushes.

Jan 19 •

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6:10

20 Questions: AMA with Joanna

How to make friends as an adult, the three best books this year, where to eat in NYC, my #1 advice on divorce, the last time I had sex (you asked!), and…

Dec 15, 2023 •

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My First Dip Into Dating After Divorce Feels Like a Rom-Com

I forgot what butterflies felt like! Plus, we share party dresses and answer two reader questions.

Nov 10, 2023 •

Podcast: Joanna and Lucy Talk Dating

Listen now | Joanna Goddard and her twin sister, Lucy Kalanithi, discuss dating — including sexual awakenings, what to wear on first dates, and funny…

Oct 13, 2023 •

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