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Reader Question: "I Want to Talk Dirty in Bed, But I'm Nervous"

“Do your partners make noise? Or... talk?"

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Joanna Goddard and Kaitlyn Teer
Jun 06, 2025
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When I was in Paris last month, my female friends and I went to lunch. Over cheese and bread, the conversation turned to sex. “When you’re in bed, do your partners make noise?” one friend asked. “Or… talk?”

My answer was immediate….

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